Like attracts like. You don’t draw in who or what you want, you draw in who or what you are. Change your intention and you change your path.  I suppose, then, one had better know who one is.  And if you are the one, then you had better like who you are.  And if you don’t, then you had better change that first.  You had better change your intention.  Then you will walk on a different path.  Then you will attract what you are.  I suppose, then, this would be a source of happiness. 

It is not easy, though, being a creative—individual—loner.  There are not many of those, so we don’t have a lot of “drawing” power.  But the ones we do draw in are really cool.  I suppose, then, it is not a matter of numbers—who has the most friends—but of meaningful relationships. I suppose, then, one had better know who one is.  And if you are the one, then you had better like who you are.  And if you don’t, then you had better change that first.